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tinyjameslandor
intimidation
Posted by tinyjameslandor on Sep 5th 2009

one for the small guys….

anyone ever been intimidated by a much taller guy? i got some hassle from a big 6’3 plus guy last night was picked clean up off the floor the bouncers threw his ass out though


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sixonedude
Re: intimidation
Posted by sixonedude on Sep 5th 2009

When I was tall I liked standing near other people to make them have to crane their necks higher to look up to talk to me. In high school I remember a 6’10” dude standing close to a 5-foot girl for comedic effect. But in general, in stories I’ve read online, tall people themselves can be the targets of intimidation because the short guys like to prove their mettle by going after the biggest guy in the room (one died that way).


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tinyjameslandor
Re: intimidation
Posted by tinyjameslandor on Sep 5th 2009

woah


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j88
Re: intimidation
Posted by j88 on Sep 5th 2009

I’ve been picked up by some guys a lot taller than me when I was dressed as Superman out on the town and been made to fly. They were fresh out of a rave and dressed as the Super Mario Brothers, a bit off their faces, but it was all in good fun.

I’ve never been made to feel inferior for my height, and I don’t have any kind of complex either, especially not one where I feel the need to pick fights with people (bigger or otherwise). I’m pretty pacifistic, definitely a lover not a fighter, and anyone who would try to pick a fight with me to show how tough they are for beating up someone smaller is pretty pathetic.

I like taller guys, but I’m not into the whole power play/domination/submissive thing. It can be fun as a roleplay or fantasy, but a relationship based on inequality or bullying is not my idea of a good time. Each to their own really, but intimidation is not for me.

I guess I’m lucky that I’ve not had any bad incidents, I even went to an all male sporting dominated school where most of the guys were taller than me and I never had any issues. Plus, in my experiences, the very very tall guys are usually quite passive.


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tinypete
Re: intimidation
Posted by tinypete on Sep 6th 2009

I’ve been intimidated a lot by much taller guys, but I’m pretty good at breaking the ice with real tall men. I’ve had that experience of being picked up, similar to j88. But I haven’t had any real bad or disrespectful moments overall. It was usually in the name of good fun. There was one time about 7 1/2 years ago that I felt pretty powerless and intimidated at a club by a really tall bouncer. The guy had to be at least 6’7” and man did he catch me as underage and he made fun of my size and my bad fake ID. Now that, was embarrassing


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shadowraven
Re: intimidation
Posted by shadowraven on Sep 6th 2009

I’ve been intimidated by taller guys before, but not for the reason you may think. Mostly it’s shyness. But I’ve never been intimidated as in “I’m scared.”


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sixonedude
Re: intimidation
Posted by sixonedude on Sep 6th 2009

Speaking of breaking the ice with tall guys, there was a tall guy behind me in a club once, about 6’8” – I turned around and joked to him “Let me know if I’m blocking your view at all” (the DJ was in front of us) “because I’ve been told I’m tall.” I think he was shy because he just smiled.


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jackofblades
Re: intimidation
Posted by jackofblades on Sep 6th 2009

When I was at secondary school (high school for those not in the UK) I had a few tall guys who were quite nice and friendly in my class. There was one who’d pick one of my friends up and lift him right up, pretty much every time we had Chemistry. Being average, I was too big for that, but they were fond of standing right in front of me and bellowing. I think it was meant in humour, but if it was meant to be intimidating, it didn’t really work.
These days Humans in general intimidate me if I feel intimidated at all, so it’s largely irrespective of height.


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simonh
Re: intimidation
Posted by simonh on Sep 7th 2009

Yes it has happened to me a few times.

At school I was 17 and this huge 15 year old (6’7”) used to lift me up just for fun. He could lift me over his head like a toy and pin me to the ceiling, or he sometimes lifted me onto coat hooks and left me dangling there. Since then I have had a few things happen, but I have never been beaten up by a big guy


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smccarthy
Re: intimidation
Posted by smccarthy on Sep 11th 2009

I can relate to j88 and shadowraven on this one. In general tall guys don’t intimidate me, I’ve never met anyone that had to prove a point by showing off how strong they are, lol. But if I don’t know a tall guy all that well, like an acquaintance, I often feel a little bit shy…

And I find that the really tall guys won’t make fun of my small frame or short height. Maybe it’s because we have something in common; we both know what it’s like to be centered out because our body sizes are different.


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wesman123
Re: intimidation
Posted by wesman123 on Oct 20th 2009

Im 5’9 175lbs and meant this 19yo in a club he plays basketball but in the club he was the tallest dancing in shorts and flip flops. His build was incredible for his size, huge legs muscles gigantic calves bigger then bowling balls, and long muscular arms. It was a wet dream in the making, i saw him dancing and bumped into him my head was at his elbows so he was 7’3 or taller, but i asked him how strong he was cause his huge legs look strong, he simply grabbed me by the arms and squeezed and lifted me straight up about 7feet in the air, he didnt know i was precumming in my pants. I have more about this later.


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giantdunk
Re: intimidation
Posted by giantdunk on Oct 23rd 2009

that is a funny story wesman! Maybe my twin LOL


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littleboy
Re: intimidation
Posted by littleboy on Oct 23rd 2009

have you ever use your height to intimidate anybody giantdunk ???


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giantdunk
Re: intimidation
Posted by giantdunk on Oct 23rd 2009

yes, sometimes i do :)


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littleboy
Re: intimidation
Posted by littleboy on Oct 23rd 2009

give us an example… it could be funny for a giant like you to intimidate others… or maybe it’s to reach a personal goal ?


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